Sex Toys are wonderful (They are not just for single people you know)! They allow for a lot of foreplay and great education. Who doesn’t love foreplay?
Sex toys can stimulate one part of the body while you are working another.
Let’s say your partner loves having her breasts played with. You can put nipple clamps (you can adjust the tension and you can get regular or vibrating!) on her while you are massaging her legs. Win/win! Use your imagination; I am sure you can come up with your own situation just based on what you like.
Sex toys range from something as simple as a blind fold to Cock Rings, from Ben Wa Balls to Penis Pumps, from Pussy pumps to the pocket pussy! There are toys for men, woman and couples. Get out there and see what you and your partner will like. And just for the record, the Penis Pump is for both of you. By “pumping” the penis full of blood it will make the penis bigger for your partner and the sensitivity will bring plenty of pleasure for you! It's not all about size, it's all about pleasure!
Using sex toys is another way to keep the communication alive. If you can’t tell by the body language, ask your partner if they like what you are doing. Or if you are the receiver TELL your partner if you like it or if they should move a little this way or that way. If what they are doing is not working for you, nicely say something like... “Let’s try this” or “what do you think about trying this”. You don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings but at the same time you don’t want to waste your time NOT being satisfied. Try to stay as positive as you can. By doing this the lines of communication are open and so are the endless possibilities of what's to Come!
I think the most important thing a couple should remember whether you have been together a million times or the first time is to keep things interesting. If things get to mundane people get bored. When people get bored… well, they move on to someone else!
Don’t forget the LUBE! Lubrication is key. If it hurts, then they are probably not enjoying it. Just like the sex toy, the right lube can make all the difference. Whether you are masturbating or having anal sex, a warm wet lube helps everything slide right into place. There are lubricants for sensitivity (to reach a higher climax) or to delay the climax. There’s one for vibrators too! Please remember that oil based lubricants are not latex safe!
Condoms! Condoms are another sex toy if you will! You can get ultra thin for a little more closeness or Pleasure based. Flavored or ribbed for a little more enjoyment! Have fun while being safe.
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